Sunday, September 14, 2014

Last Visit Before NICU Lockdown


It's that time of year again. You know, the time of year when every kid, their parents, and anyone they look at funny, gets sick. It's starting earlier this year too. I'm sure you've heard of Enterovirus 68 by now. Well it's a nasty thing. I've heard it described as RSV on steroids. And RSV is really bad. Like we will end up back in the hospital and possibly reintubated if any of the boys gets it. So with that in mind, I really really really hope we don't get this new virus! Because the boys have chronic lung disease, they're at an increased risk. (Oh and the kicker, Addison is also at an increased risk because she has asthma). So if you or anyone in your house has had cold/flu symptoms recently, please stay away from us! Thanks in advance!

That being said, the NICU goes on lockdown tomorrow. That means no visitors under 12, including siblings. So Addison can't even go back. While I completely understand and I'm glad they're keeping the germs out as much as possible, I really hate it! Like really really hate it! James needs to see his brothers and his big sister and they need to see him. 

So I did what any triplet mommy would do and took Mason and Logan to the NICU today to visit James one last time. Mason and Logan were sooo good today too! (James wasn't too happy). We only stayed about 30 minutes but they got to visit and that's what matters. I only planned for a short visit because we are usually rushing out of there due to a meltdown! Then of course they were super good and I wished we had more time! And bonus - Mason got to see Cindy, one of his first nurses from UAMS who took such good care of him when he was super tiny and super sick. I wish we had more time and that we could see these special people more often!

Oh and I got a few pictures. I bet everyone can tell who is who!

We tried putting James in the middle but that didn't work out. I think he knew the order was wrong! He was much happier once we got the order right! (Also if you'll notice James switched wubbanubs). 




Here's one of Logan and James:

And here's one of Mason and Logan from this morning at home. They were talking to each other! Too cute!

And of course I took a few individual pics too:






Thanks Aunt Dot for the onesies! We love them! Everyone can tell us apart too when we have our names on our clothes!! (Our mom loves embroidered and monogrammed stuff too!)

So these will be the last group pics of all 3 together until James comes home! So that means he needs to hurry up! (He's making progress so hopefully not much longer). They're 4.5 months old and they won't see each other again until James comes home or the NICU lockdown is over. It better be when James comes home because NICU lockdown continues until flu season is over. I can't make it that long!






Tuesday, September 9, 2014

The Boys Are 19 Weeks (and I'm 32)

To say that this has been the craziest year of my life would be the understatement of the century. I don't even know where to start. So maybe I won't. I guess I've already shared most of the last year anyways. Let me just wrap up year 31 by saying that I've learned a lot about a lot of things I never knew I would need (or want) to know. And I met 3 amazing little boys who have changed my life forever.

Today was a mostly "normal" day. We got up at 6 for the 6 am feed. Then I had my coffee and got ready for work. Yummmm . . . Coffee. I love coffee. Guess who knows that? Brian and Addison. Here's my gifts from the morning:


That's right. Coffee, coffee cups, lemonheads, assorted candy (in the bag), and pictures of the boys for my office. They know me so well. Confession: I'm slightly addicted to lemonheads. I discovered them in the dollar section at Target a few months ago and now I always have a box in my purse (except for the day last week when I traded Addison a box of lemonheads for her healthy school snack when I forgot my breakfast. Mom of the year over here I know). I actually ate almost an entire box today. The flowers are from our sweet nanny!

For my birthday I got to feed James his bottle this morning and I got to visit him this afternoon. Then Brian took me out to dinner at Acadia (if you're ever in little rock you should try it!). It was so good! Then back home for 9 pm feeds and bedtime. Now I'm pumping before the midnight feeds and my bedtime. 

And now for a weekly update on the boys:

We took Mason and Logan on a field trip Sunday morning to see James (and Audra, one of our favorite nurses). This trip went much smoother than last time. 

Here's a few pictures of our trip:

Mason in his carseat ready to go (I know the chest clip isn't in the right place before anyone tries to correct me. I fixed it before we left)


Logan in his carseat ready to go


Mason checking out James (he looks confused about yet another baby!)

Logan checking out James

Audra weighed Mason and Logan for us too so we know how much they weigh again! Thanks Audra!

Current weights:
Mason - 8 lbs. 15 oz. 
Logan - 7 lbs. 13 oz. 
James - 9 lbs. 1 oz. 

James:
Mr. James is making progress this week. We changed formula again. The last 2 formulas helped with reflux but James had a hard time digesting them (and he pooped all the time). We tried adding rice to the last formula but it made him gain too much weight too fast (1 lb. in 1 week!) Now he's on neocate, which is an amino acid based formula that is completely broken down. All James has to do is absorb it. So not much. Oh and he has to drink his bottle! James doesn't really like to do that unfortunately! 

Most people don't understand why James isn't home yet. We constantly hear "he's so big why isn't he home?" And "wasn't he the healthiest?" And "he looks fine to me!" Well those are valid points I guess. But it doesn't change the fact that James doesn't know how to eat still. He's taking maybe 30 mls 3 times a day. He needs to take 70 mls 8 times a day. So needless to say he's got a ways to go still. OT is working with him though so we'll get there (on James time though). 

Here's a few pictures from the past week:


My first time feeding James a bottle!



Mason:
Mason had a good week. He isn't quite as angry and he's calming down a lot easier. And he's sleeping through feeds at night lots of nights too (like last night he slept through the midnight and 6 am feeds). We may start working on sleeping longer periods at night soon. For now we just take the long periods when we get them because Logan really needs all of his feeds still. 

Mason also did this the other night:


I was breastfeeding Logan and Mason was throwing a fit in his crib. If course I couldn't get to him so I had to let him CIO. This is usually unsuccessful and Mason usually only gets madder. But this time he calmed himself down and went to sleep. When I went to check on him I found him like this, cannula next to his face instead of on it. Good news: he was hooked up to his monitor the whole time and his stats stayed the same. Maybe he doesn't need the oxygen. Keeping my fingers crossed!  

Here's a few pictures of Mason:


Mason loves this bouncy seat and the hoot owls. 

Logan:
Logan has become a lot more alert over the past week. He will sit in his swing or bouncy seat and just look around for a long time! Logan has gotten a little fussier the last few days. But it's mostly at night so I'm thinking that's just his fussy time. 

Here's a few pictures of Logan from the last week:


Logan doesn't really like the new tummy time mat we bought! Ha!

Thanks to everyone who wished me a happy birthday today. I hope 32 is a much less hectic year with fewer big surprises!

Tuesday, September 2, 2014

We're 4 Months Old!




Can you believe it? The Mann Triplets are 4 months old already!! Actually they turned 4 months old last Friday. I just made it to the hospital for their monthly photo tonight because we've been so busy.

I have been wanting to take Mason and Logan up to see James for a while and tonight we finally packed up the Mann Van and headed to the hospital. If you've never traveled with multiple babies (or with oxygen and monitors) you're missing out! Ha! This requires a lot of patience! Especially because I wanted to take pictures too. We had a pretty uneventful start to the trip but it quickly went downhill once we got to the hospital. Logan started crying before we even got on the pink elevator (the one that goes up to the NICU). When we got up there, I had to get James dressed in outfit #1. And he peed everywhere! Luckily I "caught" it and saved his outfit (and mine too). We didn't really get good pics of outfit # 1. They mostly looked like this:




Once again Mason did not want to cooperate in picture day. We had to work really hard to get the few good pictures we got! But it's so worth it! Outfit #2 was more successful. The best ones are up top. We had lots of out takes too though. And lots of crying (mostly Brian). But overall successful considering I'm not a photographer and I'm trying to take pics of 3 newborns with my iPhone before Brian kills me. Note: I will get professional pictures done once the babies are all home if I can find a reasonably priced photographer with a lot of patience! I actually signed up to get free NICU photos through the Tiny Footprints Project but they haven't been able to find a photographer in Little Rock. 

Ok so enough about photos! Here's an update on the babies (the real reason everyone reads my blog!)

James:
(I know it's crazy to do James first but he earned it!) James is still in NICU but he's doing so much better! He just finished a 9 day steroid for his lungs which has helped tremendously! He's now on 1/2 liter oxygen like his brothers. And he hasn't had any issues. Yay James! He did have a hard time with the steroid though and kept dropping his heart rate. So they moved him back to a pod (out of a private room) so he can be monitored more closely. He hasn't had any episodes since he's been off the steroid. And we got him moved to pod 9, which is the best pod. And our friends from East (the NICU room where they keep the tiny babies and where we started) are in pod 9 too! 

We have been working to get James's reflux under control lately (as I'm sure you probably remember) so we've been trying to find the right formula for him. First we tried pregestimil. That helped but made James poop like every hour. So now he's on nutramagen, which is the nastiest smelling formula. But it's working so far so I'll take it. They've also taken James completely off breast milk. I'm not too happy about this. But I am ok with it. He got 4 months of breast milk which is more than I ever anticipated. 

Big news for James this week. He got his first bottle! 


He did great! They started him at 10 ml once a day and now he's up to 20 ml once a day. Hopefully he'll get on the oral feeding pathway soon! 

Here's some of pictures of James:




James weighs 8 lbs. 3 oz. now. And he's in size 1 diapers! James can roll over from front to back AND back to front now! And he's starting to smile, especially for Brian. Brian swears James likes his singing. I guess James doesn't know any better!

James's favorite things right now are his swing, books, his mobile (especially the lion), and his giraffe wubbanub. 

Mason:
Mason is doing great at home! He's our angry fussy baby. But we're figuring out what he likes so that's helping! Mason sleeps pretty well IF we can get him to sleep. Sometimes he'll even sleep for 5-6 hours at a time! Although he is pretty fussy, I've discovered that he's calmer if he's swaddled, even during the day, so I think maybe he's just overstimulated. 

Mason's favorite things right now are his bouncy seat with the hoot owls as our nanny calls them, being held (all the time!), and being swaddled, and his wubbanub (Mr. Monkey). 

Mason has started rolling over (belly to back) and smiling (not very often). I can tell he's beginning to be more alert and he loves looking around! 

Here's some pictures of Mr. Mason:

I wasn't kidding when I said he didn't like pictures!


Mason in the bouncy seat

Mason in the swing. Otis standing guard

Logan:
Last but not least (except in size!), Logan is doing great too! He's a pretty happy baby for the most part. I think I can see the biggest progress with Logan. He's starting to really check out everything around him. He loves to look around!  And he's pretty social too. He seems to really enjoy being with his brothers!

Logan is starting to get stronger finally. He has rolled over front to back but I think it was an accident. He's definitely making progress though! And he's started smiling too! And it's the sweetest smile ever! 

A few of Logan's favorite things: Sophie the Giraffe, swinging, his play mat, and his wubbanub (Mr. Floppy Ears). I think the Wubbanub company needs to pay us for an endorsement deal. If you can't tell, my boys love the Wubbanubs! (They actually have 2 each but we haven't tried the second set yet!) 

Here's a few pictures of Logan: 




Brian caught a partial smile!



And here are some selfies the boys made me take. James was first, then Mason, then Logan (but he wasn't too happy about it):
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James's selfie. He started the trend!

Mason's selfie with Addison photobombing in the background

Logan says stop taking selfies Mom!

And here's how I find Brian every night when I come home:


And a few pics of Mason and Logan:



And a few of Logan and James:



Sorry I took so long to post this week! I'll try to post sooner next time!